Here I am changing forum! 
After almost 7 years as a single Mum,  R moved in on 1st August for a 'trial period'.  Well, he wouldn't have come if I wasn't sure but it was a really big change for M and B, so we agreed on a six month sarrangement after which we'd all see how we felt.
This weekend the girls sat me down and told me that they want R to stay for ever.  We told him together. We all had a bit of a cry and raided the freezer for treats.
So I'm heading over to Steps and Blendeds.  Hoping to pop in and see how everyone is from time to time though. xx