Great games to prepare your child for school
A teacher once told me the best thing I could do to prepare my first child for school was to play with her. I raised an eyebrow – really? Not teach her to count to 10 or write her name? No, she said quite categorically, children learn many different skills at home by simply having fun and playtime is the single most useful activity for any child.
The best games for pre-school development
Role play and why it's important
Dr Harriet Tenebaum is a child psychologist at Kingston University who specialises in play. She says helping children learn about their feelings will stand them in good stead for coping with the many new experiences they will face at school: "In our own work, we have found that explaining ('he feels happy and sad because he likes the new bicycle, but thinks he might fall off') and getting children to explain why people feel the way they do ('why does he feel happy and sad at the same time?’) increases children's emotional understanding." For particularly shy youngsters (and parents who may feel self-conscious) puppets are a great way to ‘act out’ a variety of situations and emotions. Or use fuzzy felt and make faces change expressions!
5 great games to help prepare your child for school
- Building a tower from blocks: this deals with issues of frustration and taking turns.
- Action songs and rhymes: knowing the right moves and joining in help instil confidence and co-operation.
- Painting and drawing: ‘quiet’ activities involve sitting down and concentrating for short periods of time.
- Inviting other children to play: this can help overcome shyness and leaving them to play together prepares them to cope with separation anxiety.
- Packing away toys: encourages listening to instructions and co-operation.