TheSchoolRun.com closure date
As we informed you a few months ago, TheSchoolRun has had to make the difficult decision to close due to financial pressures and the company has now ceased trading. We had hoped to keep our content available through a partnership with another educational provider, but this provider has since withdrawn from the agreement.
As a result, we now have to permanently close TheSchoolRun.com. However, to give subscribers time to download any content they’d like to keep, we will keep the website open until 31st July 2025. After this date, the site will be taken down and there will be no further access to any resources. We strongly encourage you to download and save any resources you think you may want to use in the future.
In particular, we suggest downloading:
- Learning packs
- All the worksheets from the 11+ programme, if you are following this with your child
- Complete Learning Journey programmes (the packs below include all 40 worksheets for each programme)
You should already have received 16 primary school eBooks (worth £108.84) to download and keep. If you haven’t received these, please contact us at [email protected] before 31st July 2025, and we will send them to you.
We are very sorry that there is no way to continue offering access to resources and sincerely apologise for the inconvenience caused.
Coping with sibling rivalry

Sibling rivalry can apply to any children living in the same family, from step-brothers and sisters to blood-related sibling.
It refers to the jealousy, competition, teasing and fighting that goes on between them.


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Many experts seem to agree that it stems from your child’s deep desire and need for your exclusive love, along with a need for your attention, a sense of identity, self-worth and specialness within your family.
Why do siblings fight?
There can be a number of reasons why siblings may fight. These include:
- Attention seeking – a need for your parental attention (you naturally only have so much time, attention and patience to give)
- Jealousy – "He got a new bike. I didn't. So they must love him more than they love me."
- Everyday teasing which is a way of testing the effects of behaviour and words on another person: "He called me..." "But she called me...first."
- Competition – they are growing up in a competitive society that teaches them that to win is to be better: "I saw it first." "I beat you to the water."
When teenagers fight
Teens fight for the same reasons that younger children fight. But teenagers are bigger, louder and better equipped physically and intellectually to hurt and be hurt by words and actions.
From a parent's point of view, they "ought" to be old enough to stop that kind of behaviour, but what we may tend to forget is that teenagers are under a lot of pressure from many different directions. Physical, hormonal and emotional changes cause pressures, as do changing relationships with parents and friends.
Teens may be concerned about real or imagined problems between you. They feel pressure about their future as adults and about learning to be an adult. And sometimes they feel a bit scared of it all and look for ways to get your attention or get noticed. In many ways, teens are in greater need than ever for your parental love, attention and concern and for a belief that they are as good as their siblings. They ultimately need your understanding.
Tips for dealing with sibling rivalry
- Have a positive attitude towards dealing with this. Your attitude will shape the atmosphere in your home and the relationships between your children.
- Think about each child and consider where the rivalry may come from.
- Share your time equally among your children where possible, and make sure no one feels left out.
- Help your children learn ways to resolve their differences themselves. Move away from 'right' and 'wrong'.
- Celebrate each child's individuality – respect each child's unique talents and skills. Never make them feel they are in competition with each other.
- Build a 'team' mentality in your household, where you pull together in the same direction, rather than in different directions. Each child must feel that they have a role in that team.
- Learn to celebrate successes as a family so that your children don’t see their sibling's success as their own personal failure.